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- Apr. 02, 1990: Plastic Is Tougher Than Steel
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- TIME--The Weekly Newsmagazine--1990
- Apr. 02, 1990 Nixon Memoirs
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- <source>Time Magazine</source>
- <hdr>
- EXCERPT, Page 44
- Plastic Is Tougher Than Steel
- By Richard Nixon
- </hdr>
- <body>
- <p>[(c) 1990 Richard Nixon. From In the Arena, to be published in
- April by Simon & Schuster, Inc.]
- </p>
- <p> Pat was one of our greatest First Ladies. She was a superb
- and dignified goodwill ambassador who deeply believed in the
- importance of personal diplomacy. She championed the cause of
- volunteerism, especially the Right to Read program. Through her
- leadership, the Parks to the People program built parks that
- poor people could visit. She established special tours of the
- White House for the handicapped and personally raised the money
- to light the mansion at night.
- </p>
- <p> In spite of these accomplishments and countless more, I
- think she would prefer to be remembered for another reason. It
- was hard for young people to grow up during the turmoil of the
- 1960s and 1970s, particularly children of celebrities. With
- their father subject to massive attack, Tricia and Julie
- survived it all thanks to the strength and serenity of their
- mother. They couldn't have done it without her.
- </p>
- <p> Since we left the White House, Pat has never made a speech,
- accepted an award or been interviewed. We entertain friends and
- family at home but turn down the invitations we receive to
- highly publicized events. But despite being out of public view
- for 16 years, she has been on Good Housekeeping's
- ten-most-admired-women list every year. I know why. Most
- people, even if they are basically happy, do not have an easy
- life. Some have had disappointments, others have suffered
- defeats. Many have experienced tragedy. Pat relates to these
- people, and they to her.
- </p>
- <p> The resignation was harder on her than on me because she
- thought it was a mistake to resign. I still marvel at how she
- was able to go 48 hours without sleep while she supervised the
- packing of all our personal belongings for the move to San
- Clemente. My near fatal illness in California was also a
- greater burden on her. I was physically, mentally and
- emotionally drained, so in addition to keeping up her own
- spirits, she had to sustain mine.
- </p>
- <p> After we left the White House, it did not seem possible that
- she could bear any more. I followed my usual practice of not
- reading the criticism being heaped on me. But she insisted on
- keeping informed. One day a well-meaning member of our staff
- sent her a particularly vicious book written by two Washington
- Post staff members. It was the last thing she read before
- tragedy struck.
- </p>
- <p> On the morning of July 8, 1976, I went into the kitchen at
- Casa Pacifica to get some coffee. I noticed that Pat seemed to
- be unsteady and that the cup and saucer were shaking in her
- hand. The left side of her mouth was drooping. I hoped it might
- have been caused by an insect sting, but I knew better. It was
- a stroke. As we rode together in the ambulance to the hospital,
- her left side became paralyzed. Her speech was slurred and her
- mouth contorted.
- </p>
- <p> Bouquets of flowers and get-well messages poured in from all
- over the world. But only she could handle this crisis. No one
- else could help her. Before she left the hospital, her speech
- difficulty had disappeared. But her left arm hung limply by her
- side.
- </p>
- <p> Our home in San Clemente had a beautiful Spanish inner
- patio. She had an exercise wheel installed on one of the walls.
- Day after day as I left to go over to the office, I saw her
- standing there, turning the wheel around and around again. At
- times she was disappointed because there seemed to be no
- visible improvement. But she never gave up. Before the year was
- out, her recovery was complete. Doctors did not do it for her.
- Her family did not do it for her. She did it by herself, which
- is characteristic of her whole life. My critics in the media
- called her "Plastic Pat." What they did not know was that her
- plastic was tougher than the finest steel.
- </p>
- <p> When I make appearances these days, I am most often asked,
- "How is Pat?" Considering what she has been through, she is
- remarkably well. You would never know that she had suffered a
- stroke. She no longer participates in public events but devotes
- all of her time and energy to her children and grandchildren.
- </p>
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